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About Lexie

An agent who reads what others miss.

UC San Diego undergrad and master's degrees. Former national security analyst. Active real estate investor. Se habla español. I bring the same analytical rigor I was trained to use under real pressure to every home I help buy, sell, or hold.

Background & Credentials

The training behind the strategy.

Education

UC San Diego: Undergrad & Master's

Undergrad in Political Science and Business, master's in international affairs: both from UC San Diego, with a focus on Latin America, and is what drove my passion for complex analysis.

Career

Former National Security Analyst

Years spent assessing risk and reward systematically, under pressure, where being right mattered. That discipline is now how I read a deal.

Experience

Active Real Estate Investor

I put my own money in this market: house hacks, value-add, a full Victorian restoration. I've made the decisions I help my clients make.

Licensed · se habla español.

VA, MD, DC & WV · se habla español.

Keller Williams Realty, licensed across four jurisdictions. I speak Spanish, and some now-waning Portuguese, comfortable enough to work through a full transaction in either.

Lexie De Stefano, Arlington County and Fairfax County real estate agent
Lexie at one of her listings
Yes, that is me. At one of my listings.
Lexie and her rescue dogs on the porch of the Craven House in Harpers Ferry
On the Craven House porch with my on-site reno crew.
My Story

I started because I wanted my dog to have a yard.

Jethro the rescue dog in the grass Nella the rescue dog in the grass
Jethro & Nella, my four-legged motivators

I entered real estate because I wanted my dog to have a yard, and because I already understood the importance of entering the market early, and not waiting for the perfect time to jump. I grew up in Palo Alto, California, and watched tech companies price an entire generation out of my hometown. When Amazon announced plans for HQ2 in Arlington, I didn't sit around and wait to see what would happen to local prices. What followed was a crash course in house hacking, landlord life, depreciation, HELOCs, and the creative financing plays most agents never bother to understand.

Since then I've bought multiple properties, including a distressed 1892 Victorian in Harpers Ferry that I took to the studs and rebuilt. I've navigated a plethora of unique transactions, managed tenant-occupied sales, and handled the kinds of complicated situations most agents quietly pass on.

Before real estate, I earned my undergraduate and master's degrees at the University of California, San Diego in political science, business, and international relations with an emphasis on Latin America. That focus is why I speak Spanish, and some now-waning Portuguese. From there I spent years as a national security analyst, training myself to think systematically about risk and reward when the stakes were real, and that analytical mindset is now my edge. Any agent can open a door, but I can read a situation, run the numbers, and tell you what's actually happening.

I got my license to help my own investing career. Then I realized I could do more good helping others navigate theirs. I stay in your corner before, during, and long after closing. Today, I strive to teach as many people as possible how to build real financial freedom and actually pursue the American dream.

Yes, my dogs are still a big part of the why. I'm a rescue dog mom, fully devoted to my perrijos, Jethro, Nella, and the late Sawyer, who have been my renovation crew and occasionally show up at properties.

When I'm not running numbers or walking properties, I'm thinking about where to travel next. I've been to four continents, lived in three countries, and am nowhere near done. Travel makes me a sharper strategist. You learn a lot about markets, people, and negotiation when you spend real time in places that don't work like home. If you're planning a trip or just got back from one, I genuinely want to hear about your experiences.

I don't time markets. I find angles. Big difference.

My Approach

AI-powered. Human-led.

I lean on AI consistently and proactively to strengthen deals, sharpen strategy, and surface the hidden gems other agents walk right past. The technology makes my analysis faster and sharper for your benefit. However, it does not replace the relationship behind it and nothing goes unreviewed.

There will always be a human in the loop, and that person is me. When you decide to work with me, you interact with me. Not an AI bot.

Relationships and personal connections matter deeply to me. I prize collaboration, and I stay a real resource before, during, and after the transaction.

In the Community

Co-leader of the Cash-Flow Breakfast Club.

I co-lead a local meetup for investors and aspiring investors who want to talk real deals, real numbers, and real strategy, typically held once per month on Thursday evenings. So many amazing partnerships and first deals get started here, it's where seasoned investors are made.

It's free to join, with free and easy parking. No sales pitch; just the room you want to be in if you're serious about building wealth through real estate. Get in the room.

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How I Work

Full range, real strategy.

I work across the whole spectrum. If you have a high-end home, I'll bring full luxury staging and white-glove presentation. If you want more hands-on help or a creative angle, I have a deeper toolkit than most agents carry. The one thing I can't do is help you time a market crash that may never come.

We'll work well together if you

  • Want a strategist, not just a salesperson
  • Have a high-end home that needs a fresh touch, and want polished, high-end presentation
  • Have worked hard for years and are ready for the hustle to pay off through your next home
  • Are helping a loved one through a major life transition and want a compassionate problem-solver in your corner
  • Are a house hacker ready to finally have a space of your own after years of sacrifice
  • Are a first-time buyer excited to start building wealth
  • Have a complicated situation: inherited, long-distance, tenant-occupied, or distressed
  • Are open to creative structures, new strategies, and a few moves you may not know about yet

I'm not the right agent for everyone, and I'd rather be upfront about that.

  • If you're waiting for the market to crash before you buy, I'm probably not your person. Timing the market sounds smart, but it costs people years.
  • If you need constant reassurance and updates every 2 hours, that's not how I work. My clients are busy, capable people who want a sharp advisor.
  • If you want someone who will just agree with you, I'm not that either. I'll tell you when something doesn't make sense, when the price is wrong, or when a deal isn't as good as it looks.
  • If you have no real timeline, are ambivalent about building wealth, or have no real reason to move. I work best with people who have a why that drives them.

But if you...

  • Are looking for a better future and don't know where to start
  • Aim to build generational wealth
  • Want a realtor who truly values relationships with her clients
  • Are exploring a luxury move after years of sacrifice
  • Want honest advice, even when it's not what you hoped to hear
  • Want a real estate advisor who's also an active investor, and actually gets what it's like to navigate this world

I'd love to be part of your journey.

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